Two days after Christmas. Malcolm and JJ stayed in Salinas and at the moment are at riding lessons.
The other 3 of us are home.
Duncan is now in the shower and I will have to get in there soon and clean the caked on dried on feces that is stuck to him after he pooped and then pulled up his pants. A fact not discovered for perhaps an hour later.
I am just letting him play in the shower for a bit - letting it soften and wash away before I get in there to clean him.
Ho-hum.
So, Brenna makes a good point. If caring for Duncan becomes my job, we really will have no life beyond his care. What's the answer? There is no feasible scenario that does not require including people outside of the family.